Inspiration games with dreamers

Issachar Kulari and Jesse Bonanda
Sharing Inspirations from games.

Youth and dreams on Inspiration games.
Dreamers bring out a lot of lesson from board and local games Chess, Draft, Scrabble, Dura. Dara etc.

Some points from dreamers
1. Life Lessons from Chess

*Creativity
*Need to make quick decisions
*Sometimes it is alright to lose
*Flexibility
*Sacrifice is necessary
*Take notice of patterns
*Think ahead and outside the box
*Grab the right opportunity
*Be confident and stand your ground
*Be aggressive and take action
*Have Fun

2.Life Lessons From My Nightly Scrabble Routine

*Being patient pays off
*A good defense can beat a good offense.
*Make the most of the letters you've been dealt.
*Don't be afraid to make a risky move.
*A close game is a good game

3. Life lesson from draft game.
*You will not be crown until you reach the crown position.
*Take life step by step.
*Avoid traps.
*Think a head
*Be careful about steps you take.
*Sacrifice on purpose.

4. Life lesson from Dura( Local games)
*Be focus
*Timing is needed
*When the stone goes up your hand have to work on the remaining stones(When we prayer work is need).

A lot more lessons from games with dreamers.
...Really an Inspirational games time with dreamers!

Life Lessons from Chess
"Chess is not simply a game, but it is also a way of life. Chess mimics our real life in many ways. Many people do not even know that playing chess can teach us valuable lessons in and about life. Chess is a laboratory for decision-making process in a short time under pressure, calculation, creativity, evaluation and analysis, strategy and continuous performance development among others. Some of the greatest life lessons from chess are:

Creativity
We need to be very creative while playing chess. The more creative we are the better we become. At every move we need to come up with new plans and without being creative, we cannot make new plans. Same thing goes in life too. If we are not creative enough, we cannot succeed in life.

Need to make quick decisions
Chess is played within a fixed time limit. Sometimes towards the end of the game we run out of time and in that short time we need to take decisions as to which move we should make. Some of the decisions need to be taken within a fraction of seconds. We can win the game if we make the right decision within that short time. There are times in our life when we need to make quick decisions. The better decisions we take within a short time the better the life that we lead.

Sometimes it is alright to lose
There is no game in this world in which a player does not lose. Chess is not an exception. It is alright to lose a game in chess but more important is what we learn from our mistakes. Chess and life are similar in this matter. Sometimes in life we lose in many ways but we should give more importance to analysing the mistakes and learn from them. We should remember that we never lose, “we either win or learn”.

It’s okay to bluff
In chess sometimes we need to act like we can win the game although it is a losing position. This is something like bluffing the opponent emotionally. This confidence throws people off and can even make them uncomfortable. We can use it to our advantage. Same thing goes in our life. I believe it’s okay to put on an emotional mask to bluff others at times, in order to make ourselves feel better.

Flexibility
We cannot be rigid in planning a game of chess. In every move we may need to change our plan based on the opponent’s move. Flexibility in planning is necessary for playing chess. Same thing goes with life. Things do not always go according to our plan and people surrounding us are unpredictable. Remaining flexible is an invaluable life lesson. The less rigid we are, the better we are able to handle situations thrown our way.

Sacrifice is necessary
In chess we sometimes sacrifice a pawn or other pieces to make a better attack later on in the game. The sacrifice we do helps us to win the game. The same principle applies once we walk away from the chess board. Sacrifice is a necessary part of life. Without sacrifice we may never get what we truly want or what we really need to make our life happier.

Take notice of patterns
Patterns are everywhere and the better we are spotting them, the better we can be. This skill is used in chess to identify the patterns of moves that the opponent makes. When we can take notice of patterns we are better equipped to predict the next move. We can even find mistakes in their game just by noticing their patterns. We can use this skill in our real life too by noticing the patterns of our neighbourhoods. The more we can notice other’s pattern, the better we become in dealing with them.

Think ahead and outside the box
Chess trains us to think ahead and outside the box. There are many times in a game where our plans are foiled and we need a better solution to stay in the game. We always think many moves ahead in chess. This is also a skill we will need over and over again in life. Thinking outside the box helps us find solutions to problems in ways that others may not think of.

Grab the right opportunity
In chess, whenever we get an opportunity to take an opponent’s piece which will make our position better, we should take it. We should not miss any opportunity like this as opportunities do not always arrive when we want them to. So when any opportunity is presented to us, we should not wait. This principle is used in chess all the time. The same goes with life. If we are given any small or big opportunity during our lifetime, we should not let it pass by. We must take it and run with it.

Be confident and stand your ground
We need to be confident in our moves we make. Chess is about making strong moves and sticking by them. In life too, if we plan or do something, we need to make sure to stand on our ground and fight for what we think is better for us.

Be aggressive and take action
When there is a problem or a threat in chess, we sometimes need to be aggressive and take action. We either make a wise move for defence or make a strong attack. This rule applies in life as well. Sometimes we need to be aggressive and take action to change things or to make a difference. Nobody would want to let life pass by without going after the things they want.

Have Fun
Every game we play, we should have fun. We enjoy playing chess whether we win or lose. It is most important in the game of chess and in everyday life too. We should do what makes us happy and enjoy everything we do".

Life Lessons From My Nightly Scrabble Routine

"1. Being patient pays off.  It can be tempting to put down a good letter the second you get it, but waiting for the perfect spot to open can lead to a super jump in your score. Life's like that too. Often we want to rush in at the first chance we're giving, but sometimes a little waiting makes for an even better opportunity. You never know what word is going to be played next -- and it can pay off to be patient.

2. A good defense can beat a good offense. When I first started playing Scrabble, I had no concept of defense, but now I know that it's important to watch out for the best spots and make sure your opponent doesn't snag them first. Even if you don't have the best letters, it's important to put yourself out there and get the spot before someone else does.

3. Sometimes it's all about luck. Sometimes it really is about luck. You can have get the worst letters and, no matter what you do, you can't seem to rack up any points. It's okay to be faced with tough situations -- in Scrabble and in life -- and to realize that sometimes luck plays a roll. But that's not an excuse to give up hope!

4. Make the most of the letters you've been dealt. No matter what your letters are, you have to make the most of them. Some days I have great letters. Other days I have crummy ones. But no matter what letters that iPad gives me, I do what I can with them. As we all should with the situations we're given in life. Do the best you can with what you're given.

5. Don't be afraid to make a risky move. If you want to win, sometimes you have to put yourself out there a little bit and take risks. To make the move you want, you might have to put down another word that could lead to a high score for someone else. But that's okay. You don't know what letters your opponent has and you never will if you don't take a chance. Be brave!

6. A close game is a good game. As much as I do love to win, it's never very much fun to dominate the Scrabble board. It's much more fun to have an opponent on the same level as you. The game is much more interesting (and it makes it just that much more statisfying if you win!). In life, it's important to stay on your toes. Keep the game close. Surround yourself with those that challenge you and you'll be sure to step up your game".





















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Wisdom from Chief Timawus Matthias and Testimonies from Emmanuel Yawe and Solomon Benjamin.


Chief Timawus Matthias
Former Chairman and CEO Quest Media Limited Abuja Nigeria

Wisdom from Chief Timawus Matthias and Testimonies from Emmanuel Yawe and Solomon Benjamin.

Chief Timawus Matthias wrote on his wall, i see it as a great wisdom worth sharing. I quote "Children, learn good morals. Do not follow the fluting of the pied piper that leads you to your destruction feeding your lowly appetites. Learn from me such that at 70, you would still be young and active in the pursuit of good purpose. Believe me there are things to do even more fulfilling than being a politician. Listen to me.

I first blogged for General Yakubu Gowon from 1972. I then blogged for General Obasanjo and later President Shagari in 1979 and of course you know I anchored Verdict 83 in 1983 on NTA for 57 days non stop. NTA was the only Network Channel. I came to Yola as first Head of News in 1978, and became GM in 1983 till 1991 and still blogged for Governor Barde, Juta, Njidda, Bamanga Tukur, and still for IBB, Abacha, and even Buhari at PTF. I have anchored town hall interviews with all the past Heads of State except Goodluck Jonathan, yet blogged for him. Google "Run Goodluck Run" by Timawus Mathias. I blogged for Gov. Mu'azu of Bauchi for 4 years, Governor Sheriff of Borno for 2 years, and the great Murtala Nyako. Also Sule Lamido of Jigawa for 4 years, Governor Dankwambo of Gombe for 3 years, and Governor Bindow for all his 4 years.

Know what? These were not people. They were EVENTS in History. Whatever they all were, they have become former now. But a blogger I have been and will always be. No former - ever. My proud choice in which I have raised children and mentored achievers. I blog same way a donkey kicks and a scorpion stings - from habit.

... teach the hirelings the right godly way.

The gentle stride of a tiger is not a symbol of weakness. That an old man sits and stares does not mean he does not see above treetops and rooftops. If I respond they will wonder and ask - did you not know they were children pulling at a lion's tail? Even if you will kill a fly, do not use a sledgehammer".


Timawus Mathias @70
copied from Emmanuelyawe.com

When I first set foot on Yola in 1980, the list of professional journalists in the town was very short; so short you could script all on the backside of a post office stamp. I joined the short list as a cub reporter for Nigeria’s lone news agency – NAN.

Towering above all of us even in physical height was a tall, huge, handsome man. He was a dapper dresser and loved sleek Honda cars. He was a bundle of talents. At a moment he was out there in the field as a reporter, at another, he was reading the news as a news caster at the local NTA station and then you also saw him play the guitar or some other musical instruments during the weekend entertainment segment of the station. Call him a role model if you care.
They called this man Timawus Mathias.

He was part of the team that set up the television station known as NTA Yola. At the time of my arrival in Yola, he was a principal officer, I think. Those of us just signing up then all wanted to be like him.
Gifted with unlimited humor, we often shared jokes at the Yola Club or he came down from his high horse to split drinks with us at the decrepit press centre in Jimeta, Yola. Personally, it was through him I had an inroad into the Bachama nation. We often drove down to Numan at weekends. At first it was fun. I found the Bachama to be one of the most free spirited, friendly, civilized and cosmopolitan group you can find anywhere in Nigeria. Timawus himself is a typical Bachama man. He believes in Christ but he has an endless chain of Muslim friends. Engage him in an argument about Islam and he will quote the Quran and Hadith for you. His wife is an Ibo lady.
As a free young man, I was soon no longer interested in following him to Numan again. All the young “available” girls in Numan called him “Uncle Tima”. As long as I was in his company, there was no deal. The way out was to avoid going to Numan with him, switch camp and join the “Uncle Tima” choir group; I called and still call him “UncleTima”. I have been in good business in Numan since this new discovery.
In the days of Governor Abubakar Barde he was brought over from NTA to be the Director of Information for Gongola State. It did not last long. His talents soon saw him climbing to greater heights at the headquarters of the NTA in Lagos. Those of us who have followed his career can say that he was at his professional best at this point.
As the anchorman for the Verdict 83 political programme, his performance was simply excellent. Working with Patrick Ityohegh, Emeka Maduegbuna and Walter Ofonagoro, they pioneered the ‘on the spot live reporting’ that was later aped and popularized by the CNN. It was invented in Nigeria by Timawus and co at NTA. The CNN merely copied them.

Tragically, when the military came to power at the end of 1983, they disbanded the set up. Instead of encouraging the initiators of what was by all standards an excellent pace setter programme, some of the initiators were kicked out of the NTA. Timawus was already the General Manager of NTA Yola after the 1983 elections so he was saved the massive purge which caught up with his colleagues who were still in Lagos and subjects of scurrilous media and military onslaught.
He later retired voluntary. Since then, he has deployed his talents to news reporting, media consultancy and television programming. He played an immodest role in setting up the Jigawa State owned television station and a private radio station in Gombe. A professional broadcaster, his transition into the print media as a feature writer and columnist is amazingly seamless. And he is now giving the young generation a good run for their money with his inevitable daily contributions in the social media.
But his Biblical three score and ten years on earth have not been a life of roses as I have portrayed. Uncle Tima has been beset by a set of mishaps especially after retirement that could shatter anybody. First was the death of his first child – the lovely, intelligent and hardworking daughter – Altine. A graduate of ABU Zaria, she was married to a young man from the Plateau with one child. Suddenly and without warning, she died.

Uncle Tima picked the son and the duo became very close before he, just like the mother, without any serious sickness dropped dead one day. Next was the death of his immediate senior brother, Chief Mathias; the man we used to call “Abiola” in those days when he had so much money that we thought it was without limit. By the time we met after the brothers’ death, it was apparent that the serial misfortunes were taking their toll. There was every sign of a partial stroke on his face.

But a bigger disaster was waiting in the wings. In 2010, he was on his way back to Yola from Abuja when a reckless man, driving a truck loaded with cattle at a suicidal speed decided to use the Mercedes salon car in which Uncle Tima was travelling as a speed breaker. His driver was killed on the spot. Bibi, his last born who was also in the car escaped without a scratch. Anybody who sees the wreck of the Mercedes will not believe that somebody ever came out of it alive.
I was at Bima Orthopedic Hospital in Jos soon after the accident to see how he was coping with yet another tragedy. He was in bed with one broken arm and one broken leg. His broken leg was strapped to his bed and he was made to lie with his head pinned down and his legs raised; not a very comfortable position for a man of his size. But it was good news that I found my role model alive and kicking. Good old Uncle Tima had his humour intact even in that precarious and uncomfortable situation. He still maintained his weekly column with the Trust newspapers.

Timawus Mathias is a journalist who has contributed greatly to the development of his profession, his home state and the Nation. His Bachama ethnic group has recognized his contributions by naming him Nzobyalata, literary meaning he who speaks the Kings wish and commands.
At 70, he deserves better recognition from a country he has served very selflessly.

Copied from Solex Benny (Solomon Benjamin).

Chief Timawus Mathias is a journalist who has contributed immensely to the development and growth of his profession, home and nation. He is a multi talented public figure, endowed with much wisdom.
He loves and respect the Bachama tradition, earning the title of Nzobyalata Hama Bachama. Known for the defense of the Bachama tradition. A journalist of international repute Uncle Tim as he is fondly called anchored the "VERDICT 83" a political program on NTA, he was part of the team that formed NTA yola. As an active journalist Reported on the war in Siera Leone, Somalia, Chad and Zimbabwe.
Covered memorable events like the royal wedding of Diana and Prince Charles, President Shagari's state visits to UK, USA, India, Pakistan and Siera Leone. He also covered the 35th session of the general Assembly of the UN.

His influence has shaped the life's of many of his kinsmen, his support knows no religion, ethnic group, background or even age.

He is indeed an icon and beacon of hope to many.

Like every mortal, he may have his foibles but as a young man, I am curious to know what drives such a man as Jiji Timawus Mathias. He dragged me to sit beside him for the last 3 days as he edited a documentary on the burial ceremony of the late Kwire Mana Kpafrato and he patiently taught all of us the young men around him the art of the creative TV industry with lessons I will never have got in my classroom. Even while we were in one room editing the documentary, he was shuttling into another room producing a theme song that he wrote. Where does such strength come from? I am dying to know.

God bless Jiji Timawus Mathias and reward him richly for his life of example, mentoring, and speaking of truth to power in a manner we are learning every day.

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